Every time it’s your
decision, be wise to choose what is right…rather than falling down.
Think before you desire a thing. There is every possibility
that it will be fulfilled, later you will suffer
But really are we given choices in our lives? Some people
believe that everything in our lives is fixed. This world is like a stage and
we all are puppets. If we are the masters of our own destiny and everything is
in our hands then why do we cry & repent later after making choices.
Whenever a problem or crisis appears it simple means the way
of existence & a wakeup call for us. At that moment we all are given a
choice, either we collapse into depression or put all our energies seeking a
new or real meaning to life.
What is this real meaning of life?
There are people who feel incomplete, vacant from inside
amidst of all achievements and fame. They feel life is slipping out of their
hands every moment but they can’t do anything. What is that one thing for which
they can put everything on stake? What is that one thing which can give peace
to their soul?
This word “Real” change with the priority of each person.
Whatever is your priority in life that becomes real for you. If your priority
is money than your real meaning lies in earning money. For some it can be fame
for some marriage for some relationships for some family, for some enjoying
their life as it comes.
But for very few nothing seems real to them. When they sit
& ponder as to who they are and what they have achieved they feel hollow
inside. When I sit & think about reality only one thing comes in my mind -
Things that cannot be taken away by death is real & rest everything is
unreal.
Now based on this can you think what is real in your life. I
leave this onto you.
Life has no conclusion it goes on & on without beginning
& end. So anything which does not have a beginning and an end how can we
find our destination in it. How can people claim they have achieved their goal
or aim or destination? How do we know where to start and where to stop? So is this
destination in terms of humans related to this body? I think whenever our souls
will find godliness hidden in this creation its journey will end till that time
we are covering a deep sleep journey.
It’s usually said that our actions ,thoughts , responses
& reactions at the time of adverse situations decides further course of
action or whether we will get caught in that particular situation or not. Let
me give you an example. Imagine a 16 years old girl timid and fresh like a bud.
Since childhood she has seen her parents fighting with each other. She was the
only child. At very young age she lost her mother. She has always blamed
herself for her lonely & awful life and thought that whosoever will come
close to her would also be affected. She started hating all men around her ,
developed an unreasonable fear of relationships
& started running from every bad or good situation in her life.
Whatever good or bad used to come her way she connected it with her bad luck.
She became selfish and started taking people for granted who used to love her.
‘Deserts can give only cacti’. She saw hatred, understood hatred & further
gave hatred.
Had she changed that situation of her life into an
opportunity of spreading love around her? What she saw since childhood she could
thought of choosing opposite to that. She could have promised herself that what
I have received I will not give that to others. Although it’s very difficult to
give what you have never received. But there is no greater power in this
universe than the power of love. As it said what you give to others same
reflects back with full force towards you. So the choice is yours & it has
always been yours. It’s you who has to make right decision.
Only two things can change your life and make it divine. One
is Patience & other is Belief. Patience that whatever is happening in your
life is happening for good and belief in the creator in the nature that no
matter whatever happens you can pull out yourselves even from hell.
