Be wise to choose- Article

 

Every time it’s your decision, be wise to choose what is right…rather than falling down.

Think before you desire a thing. There is every possibility that it will be fulfilled, later you will suffer

But really are we given choices in our lives? Some people believe that everything in our lives is fixed. This world is like a stage and we all are puppets. If we are the masters of our own destiny and everything is in our hands then why do we cry & repent later after making choices.

Whenever a problem or crisis appears it simple means the way of existence & a wakeup call for us. At that moment we all are given a choice, either we collapse into depression or put all our energies seeking a new or real meaning to life.

What is this real meaning of life?

There are people who feel incomplete, vacant from inside amidst of all achievements and fame. They feel life is slipping out of their hands every moment but they can’t do anything. What is that one thing for which they can put everything on stake? What is that one thing which can give peace to their soul?

This word “Real” change with the priority of each person. Whatever is your priority in life that becomes real for you. If your priority is money than your real meaning lies in earning money. For some it can be fame for some marriage for some relationships for some family, for some enjoying their life as it comes.

But for very few nothing seems real to them. When they sit & ponder as to who they are and what they have achieved they feel hollow inside. When I sit & think about reality only one thing comes in my mind - Things that cannot be taken away by death is real & rest everything is unreal.

Now based on this can you think what is real in your life. I leave this onto you.

Life has no conclusion it goes on & on without beginning & end. So anything which does not have a beginning and an end how can we find our destination in it. How can people claim they have achieved their goal or aim or destination? How do we know where to start and where to stop? So is this destination in terms of humans related to this body? I think whenever our souls will find godliness hidden in this creation its journey will end till that time we are covering a deep sleep journey.

It’s usually said that our actions ,thoughts , responses & reactions at the time of adverse situations decides further course of action or whether we will get caught in that particular situation or not. Let me give you an example. Imagine a 16 years old girl timid and fresh like a bud. Since childhood she has seen her parents fighting with each other. She was the only child. At very young age she lost her mother. She has always blamed herself for her lonely & awful life and thought that whosoever will come close to her would also be affected. She started hating all men around her , developed an unreasonable fear of relationships  & started running from every bad or good situation in her life. Whatever good or bad used to come her way she connected it with her bad luck. She became selfish and started taking people for granted who used to love her. ‘Deserts can give only cacti’. She saw hatred, understood hatred & further gave hatred.

Had she changed that situation of her life into an opportunity of spreading love around her? What she saw since childhood she could thought of choosing opposite to that. She could have promised herself that what I have received I will not give that to others. Although it’s very difficult to give what you have never received. But there is no greater power in this universe than the power of love. As it said what you give to others same reflects back with full force towards you. So the choice is yours & it has always been yours. It’s you who has to make right decision.

Only two things can change your life and make it divine. One is Patience & other is Belief. Patience that whatever is happening in your life is happening for good and belief in the creator in the nature that no matter whatever happens you can pull out yourselves even from hell.